Guest post by Enya Habel
Sitting here today, I can hardly believe where this journey has taken me. When I first stepped into the world of dog agility, I had no idea how deeply it would challenge me or how much it would teach me about resilience, compassion, and possibility.
Agility has been my greatest test, but also my greatest teacher. It has taught me that success doesn’t come from perfect conditions. It comes from persistence, heart, and a dog who believes in you.
How My Dog Agility Journey Began
I didn’t grow up surrounded by dogs or even a stable home life. As a child in foster care, I found comfort with animals long before I found comfort with people. My foster mother, an angel on earth, introduced me to horses, and for years, show jumping was my escape.
When I was sixteen, I was placed at a boarding school against my will. I felt completely lost. Around that same time, a litter of Jack Russell Terriers was born in our stable. I begged for one of the puppies, and after a lot of persuasion, I brought home my first dog.
That little terrier, named Sid, changed everything.
She was stubborn, independent, and had opinions about everything. I still remember sitting in the school library one night when I googled “Jack Russell Terrier” because I had no idea what I had brought. The answer was clear: a dog who would never give up, no matter what.
So, I had a choice. Fight her, or learn from her. I chose to learn.
I started using positive reinforcement, teaching her tricks and games to build connection instead of control. Slowly, we found each other. And somewhere between late-night training sessions and early-morning walks, I fell completely in love with agility.
Learning the Hard Way
Sid was my first teacher, and she was not an easy one. At our first agility competition, she ran straight out of the ring to steal someone’s lunch. I was mortified. But that moment taught me something powerful: dogs don’t fail us, they reflect what we haven’t yet taught clearly enough.
So I kept showing up. I trained in the dark after classes because I didn’t want anyone to see me make mistakes. I took buses, trains, and even hitchhiked to competitions before I had a driver’s license.
Those years built my grit. They taught me that passion means doing what it takes even when the path isn’t easy. Sid became a national agility champion at eight and a half years old, and that victory meant more to me than any medal since. It wasn’t just her win; it was our story of patience, belief, and perseverance coming full circle.
Building a New Life Through Dog Agility
My second dog, Party, became my heart dog, the kind that reads your soul. We’ve shared nine incredible years together, competing at the world level, standing on podiums, and learning from every setback. From driving eleven hours to train in Stockholm to building a training hall in Sweden’s far north, agility has shaped every decision I’ve made.
When people told me what was impossible:
“You can’t train in the winter.”
“You can’t make a national team from there.”
I turned every no into a checklist of things to prove possible.
Through it all, agility gave me purpose. It taught me that if you can’t change your conditions, you can still change your mindset.
Life, Love, and Lessons From the Edge
Last year, life reminded me just how fragile everything is. My partner Marcus suffered cardiac arrest in our hotel room after a competition. For 15 minutes, his heart stopped. By some miracle, and maybe a bit of stubborn Swedish spirit, he survived, recovered, and just weeks later qualified for the world championships.
That experience changed everything. It reminded us that life isn’t about waiting for the perfect moment. It is about saying yes while we can, moving forward even when we’re scared, and cherishing every run with our dogs like it could be the last.
Why I Train and Teach Dog Agility Today
Today, I get to do what I love: training, competing, and helping others grow through the sport that shaped me. Together with Max Sprinz and Susan Garrett, I co-created Handling360 Synergy, a program that helps agility enthusiasts around the world train with clarity, structure, and joy.
I believe in teaching the way I learned, with empathy, with patience, and with the conviction that every dog and handler can succeed when they find confidence in the process.
The Big Picture
Agility has never been just about winning. It is about partnership. It is about showing up when it is hard, learning from every mistake, and celebrating every moment of connection.
If there is one message I hope my story leaves you with, it is this:
You don’t have to have perfect conditions. You just have to keep showing up.
Your dog doesn’t need you to be perfect.
They need you to be present.
Today, I Am Grateful
I’m grateful for the dogs who taught me patience.
For Sid, who showed me that frustration can turn into understanding.
For Party, who made me believe that gentle souls can be fierce competitors.
For the agility community that keeps me inspired every single day.
And most of all, I’m grateful for this journey, the miles driven, the tears shed, the lessons learned, and the joy found in every wagging tail.
Because on the other side of struggle, there is always strength.
You made me cry, you touched me, Enya, you inspired me.. I’m slow thinking/moving, aging, not confident, clumsy lady, also with not so great background, for some reason in love exactly with agility )) When tricks, or Rally, or even Obedience are much easier for us, and I’m thinking sometimes about giving up , and shift focus, and enjoy something easier.. but now i don’t want to, cause it must be a REASON for that love.. and just THANK YOU for being as you are )
“You just have to keep showing up.” Thanks for that! It’s hard with the new dog….But I now take my old dog (13 1/2) to lightly compete because he clearly feels envious of the new dog who gets cookies for doing jump, tunnel. I don’t care if he Qs or not, it’s the pleasure of running with a long-time partner and the joy he feels in the whole routine.
Funny how things like this can find their way into a persons life right when they need them! My young dog is super friendly – almost to a fault- last night while in a class at the top of the dog walk he saw other dogs across the fence. He leapt off the dog walk, ran over to the fence and raced up and down it, then was preoccupied with this area for the rest of the time. I used all the tricks I had to try and get his attention back on task and it largely failed. I left feeling so defeated, alone, and like a failure to my dog. Then this morning watching/reading this. Thank you so much for sharing, and helping others feel they aren’t alone!
Sydney ❤️
Thank you
This is such a wonderful story of true grit and always believing in yourself. Thank you so much for sharing this, Enya! This is a story I’ll lean on when I need an extra push to keep pushing. You’ve come so far and have achieved so much, and I’m truly always inspired by the person you are–humble, hard-working, empathetic, and so so so incredibly driven.
Enya, thank you for sharing your incredible story of resilience and joy 🤩
Love your story. Thanks for sharing.
❤️❤️❤️❤️ ‘dogs don’t fail us, they reflect what we haven’t yet taught clearly enough.’
What an amazing story Enya. Thank you so much for sharing it!
I struggle. I feel alone. Thank you for sharing your journey. I needed to hear and read this.
How wonderful to read your story Enya . It made me cry (and I am tough! lol) So many will relate to it, so many of us come from tough/horrible backgrounds who found love and connection with animals, and through our animals, were able then to make connections with some people. You chose compassion, you sought out knowledge and understanding for your dogs over blame. No wonder you were more proud of your connection with your dog than the actual medal. I love this – “Your dog doesn’t need you to be perfect, your dog needs you to be present”. Many takeaways from this, thank you so much for sharing your story. I am sure it gives others inspiration too and a feeling of not being so alone. Wishing you and your partner all the well and all the merry. H360 synergy rocks – you three are a dream team! You guys are doing way more than dog and agility training – you are promoting a compassionate way of life 🙂 xxx
Good story! I’m curious what breed of dog is Party?
Hi Cam!
Party is a Shetland sheepdog 😊
Thank you, Enya, for sharing your story! You and your story are a huge inspiration to all of us, especially me. I’ll be looking forward to continuing learning from you (and Max and Susan:) through H360 Synergy!
Such an inspiring story! Thanks for sharing it, Enya!
Remarkable life journey, thank you for sharing Enya. Our hearts need to open to what we can learn from our four legged and two legged companions.